Saturday, August 22, 2015

Thoughts of the Day - 8/22/15

Thought #1 - Very ready to transition to having my own place, and my family is too. I've been looking but now looking by myself for a one bedroom the amount I'll have to spend is scaring me a bit and I'm wrapping my head around what I'll need to do to afford it. I've been living not having to worry about how much I spend and how often I go out with friends, I'm definitely going to have to tighten that up. Part of growing up.

Thought #2 - It can be tough to separate being upset over a situation and actually being mad at a person involved in that situation. I'm upset over a situation and although I understand why a friend had to do what they did, I'm still upset. I'm trying not to be mad at that friend because I do understand the big picture reasons it happened, but I'm super frustrated at the timing that it happened and how it went down. So I'm working on separating the two and maintaining that friendship.

Thought #3 - I'm at that in between stage where I really enjoy being single but am also lonely at times and really wish I had a boyfriend. Like I don't want to constantly be with someone else and I am very used to being independent and on my own, but I think I'm getting to a point where I'm ready to have that person by my side again. Now I just have to figure things out with the person I've had feelings for for a while....

Thought #4 - Life talks are wonderful. The past week I've had a few with a couple different people and they've really helped me clear my head about a couple things. And even if that talk doesn't lead you to a solution about some of the trouble you've been facing, sometimes just saying it out loud and getting support from someone can help an immense amount. Grateful for my friends that offered me their ears this week :)

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